Tuesday, March 01, 2005

Upsizing: Backpacks to 10' UHauls

I moved apartments this weekend and while my DSL is functioning properly, my mind is not. I'll make this snappy. The past week has been a blur of packing, organizing, cleaning, trips to Goodwill, the dump and other various outlets that have graciously received bits of my overwhelming accumulation of things. The friends who helped me move were alarmed at the sheer volume of stuff I still possess even after paring it down.

I'd like to point out that I have lived in San Francisco almost my entire life and have never had to sell everything in order to pack off to begin a life in a new city with only two duffel bags and the clothes on my back. There's no family home where the memorabilia of my youth collects dust in an attic or garage, far away from storageless urban apartments. I know some people who have rooms in their family homes that have remained untouched for over a decade since they left for college; relics of the past frozen in time like some sort of suburban domesticity museum. Nope. Wherever I go, my parents' gold-leaf wedding china goes with me. Wherever I lay my hat, I lay my father's collection of antique cameras and my mother's photographs and letters from her years in the first Peace Corps mission (Ethiopia '62 - '64). I wouldn't have it any other way- but I might begin giving some thought to a storage unit.

One note on my new place before I hit the hay. My bedroom is an exhibitionist's dream. There are at least ten apartments that can see directly into it from a multitude of angles. Time to unpack my binoculars and invest in some curtains.

3 Comments:

Blogger changeofhart said...

I hear you sister.
I am the same. No family home, so whatever is in my house is the sum total of my life thus far. Considering I used to live in a one bedroom maisonette, things got pretty crowded for a while. Got to the point of having to dump lots of old letters, magazines (which are now selling for £££ on ebay), and general amounts of 'stuff' which was either mine or my family's. It hurts, but you know what? I personally find it a bit liberating to get rid of stuff now and again... not everyone finds it easy (or liberating for that matter), but I find it cleanses the soul a bit.... just up until I go to look for something which is now pride of place in the charity shop window...

12:56 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I can see some sliver action in your new digs... What about your neighbors peeking into your life? I, unfortunately, only share snapshots of my life with my flat-mates... and I don't think they're enjoying it much.

Waiting to hear about how you ended your relationship with your previous flat-mates... Did they get fed up smelling the fantastic food you prepared for your guests without ever tasting it?

11:55 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I have a powerpoint presentation due for my college class on India. I wondered if I could use some of your photos for the slide backgrounds.....the beach, taj mahal, etc. I would not use any with you or your friends in them. Just general pictures.

My e-mail is mlmcdowell1s@semo.edu

Thanks

10:41 AM  

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